This will be a pretty short post as it will reflect the briefness of my encounter with the hot one. Lately I have been a Tinder machine. Talking to a handful of different guys and just getting myself comfortable with the idea of dating and conversing with potential dates. Usually you have to engage in small talk before the subject of a date comes up… I hate small talk, but I go along with it because it appears to be something that’s socially accepted as the norm.
Enter the hot one…
He got straight to the point and spoke about a date. I found him very attractive, he was just my type and he was asking me out! I was only in town for a week before I had to leave for work again, so I wanted to make the most of this week. I already had plans with my cousins on Friday and Saturday, plans with Mario on Tues afternoon, and Tues evening with My friend Noah and cousin Summer (I’ll talk about how that went in the next post) and I was trying to organise a day to see Mr X. I could’ve easily found the time to meet up with the hot one too!
We spoke very briefly on whatsapp. He was funny and seemed very down to earth. I could see myself getting along nicely with him. Then the bastard read and ignored me!!! I was like here we go again!!! What is it about me that chases these guys away?? Like I was actually on my best behaviour for once! I kept the weird in check, I didn’t ask any inappropriate questions and yet here I was in the same predicament as I was with Mr Smooth, Captain Obvious and Mr GIF. I rolled my eyes and thought fuck it as I deleted him from my phone.
Fast forward a week and it’s the day before I’m leaving town. I receive this message from a number no longer saved to my phone.
I have no idea who it is, his picture is not up, plus I’ve deleted many guys from my phone recently so It could be anyone of them. I go back to Tinder because I have a hunch it might be him and when I compare the numbers I realise I’m right, so I message him. His response reads as souuurrr!
Please note the past tense… I was into you… But this sour ass attitude is very unattractive, especially because I know I’ve done nothing wrong.
What a drama queen! It would’ve never worked between us, I need to be the most dramatic one in a relationship and he seems like he would steal my thunder!
-Love, Autumn x