Daaaamnn Tinder is popping!

Tinder has never been this active before. 

Maybe it’s because I kept changing my age range and swiping, that I’ve expanded my tinder pool, but the matches are pouring in. I’m not trying to show off or anything, I’m just genuinely surprised.

A couple guys have said hello and started with some small talk. A couple I’ve deleted after receiving vulgar messages and for some I’ve initiated with my classic “Hey *insert name* 😊” or if I’m feeling lazy a copied and pasted “Hey 😊”

Usually guys simply reply with a Hey how are you or some other more interesting version of that. I like the replies that say i’m beautiful 😌 This one guy replied- “where’s that cheeky smile come from 😜!” I had no idea what to say so just replied “from my face lol” Didn’t hear from him again… Didn’t care either.

Ahh well you win some you lose some.

Anyways so yeah I’m feeling kind of overwhelmed. It’s good in the sense that it’s distracting me from talking to Mr X as I told him he has the silent treatment because he hurt my feelings. He didn’t actually hurt them, he simply accused me of being addicted to sex. I should’ve typed out 1,000,000 rolling eyes emojis and crashed his phone by sending them. Surely you gotta be having a lot of sex to be an addict right? Shoooot, if I was an addict I’d be having sex right now. 

His response to me saying he’s got the silent treatment was:

“That’s okay because I’m going to sleep πŸ˜‹ night x”

I’ll rip that damn tongue out!  I mean… πŸ˜‡ 

Wait how did I manage to start talking about Mr X? Lol I actually scrolled back up to examine my train of thought.

I think I might hide away from Tinder for at least a day. My phone doesn’t give me notifications that show how many people are sending me messages. I get one or two then open the app and see like 8 and then quickly respond to everyone and close it again. 

The truth is I’m tired of texting and I’m desperate to go out and actually meet guys face to face. Damn this work abroad! Sigh, the money is what’s keeping me going. The start of Summer marks my glorious return to London (have I mentioned I’m from London?). And by return I mean no more 3-4 week long stints away from home. 

I can’t wait!

Until then I will prepare to squeeze as many dates as I can into my week in London during the last week of May. Maybe I’ll have more than one date in a day πŸ€” Maybe I’ll end up with none lol We’ll see!

-Love, Autumn x


  1. L. Rorschach · May 12

    Jealous! London is the home of beautiful men. My eyes were nearly popping out of my head when I was there in 2013. :-p

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    • The V Pub · May 12

      I’m feeling slighted, Lauren. What about Italian men from Massachusetts 😁

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    • Haha there are a few hotties around I must admit, but the US… 😩and Australia 😍 I’d love to go man shopping in both places

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      • L. Rorschach · May 13

        San Francisco is fairly nice for man shopping. I don’t know about Oz. I haven’t been there since 2002. Haha

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      • I’ll keep that in mind when I plan a trip to the US and as for OZ I’ve never been in basing it from TV lol πŸ˜‚

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  2. The V Pub · May 13

    Jeez, must I have to remind both of you that Massachusetts is the best place for man shopping? πŸ‘

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    • Wait I just realised that’s Boston right lol there’s a guy I’ve known almost 10 years from there 😍 lets just say we both wish we lived in the same country! πŸ˜‹


  3. So I’m right😁 maybe my geography isn’t that bad after all lol. Well I’ll definitely be going hopefully in the near future


  4. chelsealee7 · May 14

    Pulling off two dates in one day is classic. My sis told me that was “whorish’ and I replied, “It’s only whorish if you sleep with both of them!” hahahah! All jokes aside, if you can make two in a day work, respectfully, do it girl!

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    • Well I definitely don’t plan on sleeping with any of them lol so yeah I think I’ll give it a go πŸ˜… 9 more days til I’m back in London and can actually go on some dates!!!

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  5. Tahinah L. · May 14

    I kind of like this blog. It reminds me of myself in a lot of ways. I always have men on the brain and good ones are hard to find. Also I travelled to England once for two weeks and I only saw old men. No one hot. I was in Cambridge. Except for one pretty young man who tried to sell me punting ride tickets, and in a flirty voice I replied, “Only if you’re gonna’ be the one handling my boat…” And he just stood there speechless for a moment with his mouth open as I walked away. It was just as well because I had no money anyway πŸ˜€ Lol but enough about me. Nice stories you write.

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    • Hahaha there are a few hot guys if you’re lucky you spot them lol thank you for the support!! 😊


  6. LivingOutLoud · July 13

    Hi Autumn!
    This is a great post! I agree, meeting new people is a great way to move forward from someone who doesn’t understand you. I hate when people pull out labels like “sex addict” ? It’s wrong to accuse anyone of that. Who said enjoying sex is a bad thing πŸ˜‰
    My friends and I recently discovered this new site called Albion. Just in case you meet someone interesting yet, “questionable” on tinder!


    Also, here’s a post I wrote about it:

    Goodluck and happy dating!!!

    ❀ Alana


    • Hi Alana!! Thanks for the support 😊 I definitely agree there’s nothing went with enjoying sex, guys do so why can’t we?
      I’m intrigued by the Albion site so I’ll definitely give your post a read

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      • LivingOutLoud · July 14

        Hi Autumn!
        You’re right the world doesn’t think twice about guys enjoying sex. It feels hypocritical that a guy told you that.
        And I hope it helps πŸ™‚

        ❀ Alana

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