My Top 3 Tinderites

Haha I’m loving life at the monent well that’s if you ignore the fact that for the past week I’ve been nauseous, weak, fatigued, dizzy and had a few stomach cramps (not compliments of the red bitch). I found out my apartment building has no fire alarms or carbon monoxide alarms so being the hypochondriac that I am, I’m suspecting carbon monoxide poisoning. I’ll go get a blood test when I’m back in London next week, plus I’ll buy a carbon monoxide and Fire alarm for my room.

Okay onto why I’m loving life right now!! Remember when I said tinder was popping… 😏

Mr Compliment has really grown on me and I saw a picture with him in a suit and in that moment Mr compliment died and Silver Fox was born. This guyyyy!!! He’s 43 (can’t remember if I mentioned his age before), he is saying all the right thingss. I’m trying not to get too swept up in his words, but this may be difficult as I recently found out when taking the quiz about my Love Language (thankyou!! L.Rorschach- check out her blog for more info on love language and because it’s awesome: backinstilletosagain). 

I love when a guy makes time for me and we can spend some Quality Time together. I’m not even too fussed on what we’re doing as long as we’re together. Words of Affirmation are my bread and butter! I need that shit, I cravee it. It’s not even just that I like hearing people say nice things about me, to boost my self-esteem. It’s about when someone can be open and honest about who they are and how they feel about me. Even if they’re being a damn liar! 

I’m trying to be positive though lol

The honesty…😍❀️

Silver Fox is an absolute sweetheart 😩 looking forward to meeting him.

The other two main Tinderites are Carebear (because he looks so damn cuddly) and Oxford Chap (not from Oxford but he has that posh look to him)

Carebear has the best banter! I can see myself chilling with him drinking a cider and cuddling with him in bed watching tv and eating ribs! Yup eating ribs in bed. I’m a shameless slob when it comes to eating in bed. Sigh I should be embarrassed but I’m just not. My bed is my safe haven and the one place I can do whatever I want… My sheets are currently covered in cherry stains πŸ˜‚ The convo with Carebear just flows so naturally, I hope this is the same case in person. He’s on the chubby side and even describes himself like that on his Tinder profile, but I’m no size 4…6…8…10? Lol I’ve got cuuuurvessss πŸ™ˆ

Oxford chap seems nice, I don’t really feel like I’ve gotten to know him at all which is fine. The convo is mostly him complimenting me which I love 😍 and small talk (not a fan of). He says he’s really excited for me to be back in London and we’ve agreed to meet Thurs or Sun. I’m gonna need specifics as I’ve also told Carebear that we can meet Thursday after work.

As for Silver Fox I’d like to meet him during the day maybe for coffee during his lunch break. A nice short date like the one I had with Mario (who by the way is still talking to me, haven’t decided what to do about him yet. Maybe one more date). I think keeping it short and sweet with silver fox will be good. If I like him I’ll try and plan to see him again before I leave. In fact, if I like all 3 I’ll try to see them each twice in that week. I’m feeling pretty confident about my ability to juggle seeing these 3 guys at the moment, especially with the plans I already have with friends. We’ll see.

I was laughing with my sister and cousins about the number of guys I’ve been speaking to on Tinder, the number of guys who have said- “let me know when you’re back in London so we can meet up” Sorry boyssss I can’t see everyone, you gotta make it to my top 5! Only 2 spaces left. πŸ˜‚

By the way as I’m typing this, just got a message from Silver Fox saying “couldn’t help it, just looked at your profile picture again… I’m lost.”

Me- lost as in confused?

Silver Fox- no, as in lost in you 

My Heart- *melts*

My Head- Be careful… He seems to good to be true 

All 3 men are compliment machines, I enjoy it, but it’s actually a little exhausting because I’m not sure what to say other than thanks/ you’re so sweet. However, I know I’ll be going to bed with a smile on my face tonight.

-Love, Autumn x


  1. The V Pub · May 19

    I bet you will have sweet dreams!!

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  2. L. Rorschach · May 19

    I’m having the same symptoms – ugh. Thinking it may be viral! 😦 Get well!

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  3. L. Rorschach · May 19

    And thanks so much for the shout-out and link! πŸ˜€ I’m glad the love languages resonate with you. Mine explain so much, including why I felt so unsatisfied in my marriage.

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    • You’re welcome! I shared the quiz with my sister and cousins and we were talking about how much the results match our personality. I’m gonna be cheeky and get Carebear to do the quiz πŸ˜‚

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  4. chelsealee7 · May 20

    Love this post! I was doing the Top 5 thing for a while too and feeling great! I’m taking a dating hiatus currently, because I am exhausted and feeling a bit hopeless. Cheers for the great blogs!

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    • Thanks and you’re welcome! I’ll keep them coming 😊 I’m started to feel exhausted myself but it’s from the volume of messages I’m having to reply to because of how far I’ve cast my proverbial fishing net lol

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      • chelsealee7 · May 20

        πŸ˜‚ Amen, sister! I find the dating comes and goes in lulls!

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      • Absolutely!! Before this my Tinder was soo lifelessness that’s why I’m trying to enjoy it while I can πŸ˜…

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