The wait is over

Update to my previous post: The Waiting Game

I recieved a reply from Mr X at 6:02 (wow he was up even earlier than usual). His reply was sooooo him. Straight from the mouth of a rational thinker, not clouded by emotion whatsoever, not even a hint of disappointment or any other negative emotion. This is why I like him.

After spending time crafting my message and receiving that, I did feel like my eloquence was wasted on him though.

I did my usual and reread his reply and after a few reads, I wondered if he understood that I meant I was about to start dating… like now, and that I wanted to end things when I dating someone seriously, not during the”getting to know someone” dating stage. So after he texted me again, I made sure to slip in a little clarification.

He always apologises for the little things, it’s cute ☺️

Mr X then said- Good lol yeah I was thinking you needed to start the other day lol


Obviously I wanted to know what he meant. What happened the other day that led to him thinking that? When I asked him he referred to the screenshots of a conversation I had with some asshole, that I uploaded on Instagram. I had uploaded them as a way of showing the kind of guys who seem to be attracted to me- it was a humorous post which my followers seemed to enjoy.

The insta-convo

I basically called this guy out on his bullshit and told him to lose my number and he asked me to go for drinks, which I think was his way of asking me for one last chance m. I agreed but told him if any BS comes out of his mouth I’m leaving. 

I didn’t understand how seeing that conversation made him think I needed to start dating πŸ€” He tried to explain himself, but I felt like he was reaching/ grabbing at straws, so I changed the subject and starting talking about the little kitten I came home to today.

A little summary

Mr X knows I’m going to start dating, he’s cool with us continuing what we’re doing until I’m ready to date someone seriously (seriously in my mind means exclusivity) and I’ll still be seeing him on Thursday. I must say I’m pretty happy with how things turned out. I guess it pays to be honest about what you want 😊

-Love, Autumn x


  1. L. Rorschach · May 23

    Great update! I’m not surprised it went so well. 😊

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    • Thank you!! 😊 now I just need to try not to talk myself out of going on the dates with my top 3 Tinderites. Silver Fox just asked me out and I don’t feel like going out with him anymore πŸ™ˆ I definitely want to see Care Bear and I’m worried that Oxford will be really dull πŸ€”

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      • L. Rorschach · May 23

        Oh god, I hear you! I can get flighty and/or indecisive, which explains why I’ll match with someone then change my mind and wonder what the hell I was thinking. *blush*

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      • Haha well I’m glad it’s not just me then πŸ˜…

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    • Oh quick question: is it okay to ask a guy to shave his chest hair before you’ll have sex with him? πŸ˜‚

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  2. The V Pub · May 23

    And I was expecting pierced nipples. πŸ˜€

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    • Haha I just got back to London today πŸ˜‚ I’m going to the piercing shop tomorrow and I’m hoping she can do them then and there!! Lol don’t worry I won’t forget to let you know when I’m all pierced up πŸ˜‚

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  3. Super !!! Planning to go out for a date!! Lovely start of your day !!

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  4. The V Pub · May 24

    Your piercing post is gone! And I was about to ask if I could pick out the jewelry that you’d wear. πŸ˜€

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  5. akankshaagr · May 25

    i like it

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