I haven’t really been in the mood to go on any dates recently… Not that I’ve been asked lol. I always make up excuses in my head to justify my behaviour, but this time I couldn’t even think of an excuse to explain what it was that was stopping me from making the effort to put myself out there more.
I know it’s got nothing to do with Mr X or the magician, because things are great with Mr X and he’s supportive of me dating, and I’m very aware that the magician has one strike left that may expire on Friday. So I know I’m in need of fresh meat.
So what the hell is it?
The last couple of guys I’ve been taking to have been very ambitious and hardworking, which is great for them, but means they didn’t have any time for me. Now I’m a firm believer of the saying- “if a guy really likes you, he’ll make time for you.”
A man will show effort for the woman he wants in his life. If he’s busy, he’ll send her a message saying he wishes he had the time to take her out but he’s got a lot on at the minute. Maybe he’ll try to schedule a date in advance for after his busy period is over. He won’t go off the radar until then though. Oh no, he’ll send her texts so she’s knows he’s still interested and thinking of her. Maybe he’ll give her a couple calls.
Listen up douche bags!! I don’t care how busy you are, you can take 2 minute out of your day to call/text someone and let them know you’re thinking of them. If you’re not that interested and you choose to spend those two minutes watching porn or having a quick yank then hey, go for it, who am I to judge?
Anyways, I’m going to throw myself back into the dating world so it’s back to Tinder and maybe I’ll give a couple other apps a try. Maybe I’ll write a post comparing them.🤔 we’ll see.
-Love, Autumn x